Your "friend" is the kind of person who will end up being 65 years old someday never having gone anywhere and never having done anything. Except slave away at some company, that is.
Don't listen to what other people say. Listen to yourself.
I traveled for a year after college (was 25 at the time) around the Pacific Rim--Australia, NZ, Fiji, and up through SE Asia. Came back to the US and worked for two years, then said "f**k it all" and left again. Lived and worked in Europe for two years. Came back to the US and worked for 3 years, now I'm ready to head out again. I leave in two weeks to live and work in South Korea for a year. I'm currently 33. Who cares what your age is?
BTW, I'm still saving for retirement at the same time. When I'm working, I put money away each month in a Roth IRA and various mutual funds. I probably have more in savings than the average cubicle worker who never travels or does anything! :)
If you want to travel DO IT NOW! Once you are tied down with the "3 strikes" (Mortgage, Marriage, and Kids) your life is over.
We have this really screwed up sense of reality in the USA that the point to life is to get a job, buy a house, "settle down," live in Suburbia and acquire mountains of material possessions along with rivers of credit card debt. If that's what you want, stay at your job with Corporate America.
If you want to feel alive, get out and see the world. Travel, you won't regret it. You only live once.
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