You don't have to pay anything for him to travel unless you have been ordered to by the Family Court. He's on his own, don't pay for him, you have to pay for the kid, and he sounds like a bit of a deadbeat if he's asking you for travel money. Where we come from, its a pay as you go world. He needs to pay his way. Its a hard situation for him, I've been there, but as a guy who has been in his position. I have never asked the mum for money, but she asks me for money all the time because she's organising the kid, she does a pretty fine job organising brain stimulating experiences for the kid which often don't come cheap. I did give her some travel money but then was annoyed that I wasn't going to so now I refuse to pay for travel for their holidays. I still will pay for necessary travel. I don't ask girls for money, I earn it and provide it for a kid. And that's what ex-guy Dad has to do. Be cool, the kid's gonna need his dad, but Dad has to pay his own way. Just be nice, but be firm and don't argue about it.
Good luck, I hope that helps
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