My husband is traveling to qingdao, China in April and I suspect that he is cheating on me. I need to know...?

I need to know. I can't carry on like this. Can anyone refer me to a reasonably priced private detective in China, I will really be grateful.

Nice, I will be in Qingdao in April too, send me the details of your man and I will check out for you. No charges.... if you really want some privy detective to look for him and his fantacies... write to me, I have many friends in their and can arrange soon

best wishes

Are you sure it's with one girl or plenty of girls?

Prostitution is all over in china even in the 5 star hotels with super reliable reputations. They give you a message and an oral and sex for less than 30 bucks.

If it's with one girl, then he must be giving her an allowance which you can trace.

There's plenty of private detectives in China. But you gotta be there to hire one, and there's a language barrier. In fact, you can just ask anyone to follow your hubby for like 10 bucks a day. The amateur detective could follow and take pics all day long. but it's unnecessary.

Yeah, 90% of the people to go to China end up with sex with prostitutes.

man, life is short why bother... Just ask him stright out and if it doesn't sound like he's telling the truth then leave him.... Oh yea, maybe you can contact umm cheaters at http://www.cheaters.com/ ... Watch their TV shows, they always catch the cheaters.... It comes on late on saturday, I m not sure what part of the world you're from... Anyways, Take Care

adri1ali, if you think your husband is cheating on you, then you should confront him about it. Be direct, be honest, tell him you love him, and be frank. Tell him you feel he's been distant, that you don't feel loved, and you wonder if he's being faithful.

If he's not cheating, then he will absolutely be hurt by your accusations, but if he truly, really loves you, then he will forgive you. And now that he realizes how you feel (i.e., neglected, unloved), he might try to patch up your relationship.

If you're afraid that asking him will drive you two apart, then you need to seriously consider whether your relationship is a healthy one. Can you do better? Yes, you can.

If you don't feel comfortable addressing him about this (and it's obvious you don't), you should seriously consider whether or not your relationship is a healthy one, and you might want to consider ending it outright. Divorces are very painful (hopefully, you don't have any kids yet), but you will be so much better off emotionally if you were out of this situation where you can't trust your lover.